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Dr. Pat
Hey everybody, welcome. We are ready, fired up, to do another show, another show on the Energy Paradigm. You know, joining me here today in the show is the man who literally has created this idea, this idea of an energy paradigm.
Dr. Pat
First of all, we’re living in a time where we now can resonate with the idea of energy in multiple ways. We can resonate with it in our bodies, we resonate with it, when we go and we go to a board meeting or a meeting, or we’re Customer Service Representative, so we could feel the energy of something. But what if there was a way to talk about it? That both linked the science of it with the humanity of us, that’s what Dr. Vick is bringing to the forefront. That’s what this show is about.
Dr. Pat
But what is it about Dr. Vick and what he’s created that not only taps into the multiple layers of energy, but what is it about the tone? Does tone define who we are? This tone looks at how we show up in the world, this tone represents different things in different cultures. Well, today, we’re going to talk about how your vibration is, is it in resonance?
Dr. Pat
Dr. Vic, you know, every culture is different when it comes to tone. But when you look at the energy paradigm, you take that into consideration. What does tone mean, and welcome today. It’s a big conversation, given the times we’re living in.
Dr. Vic
Absolutely. Dr. Patton, so great to be back to see you again. What’s in a tone? I think that is a really important question that we need to ask ourselves. Because when I talk about tone, I go far beyond the tone of the voice, because normally when we talk about tone, it is, you know, is this person friendly? Is this person not friendly? Are they commanding? Are they demanding?…maybe even pushy,or acquiescing. And I think when we talk about the energy paradigm, the tone gets a wider meaning. Because the tone is not how we talk, it’s only a little bit of it. But the tone is how we show up.
Dr. Vic
And how we show up – what I mean with that: we all have an electromagnetic field around us. And that electromagnetic field has two components to it.
Dr. Vic
One component, you can call energy or light, if you want, if you want to get a little bit woowoo. It’s a light admittance, and that actually has been scientifically proven. The cells in our body communicate with light and they emit light. And so even if this sounds very weird, you might actually have noticed that sometimes when you are out and about you notice somebody and you don’t know what it is about that person, but somehow they attract your attention. Yeah, that person is lit up. Yeah, they carry an energy with them that resonates with you. So that’s the first component.
Dr. Vic
The second component is information. Through that electromagnetic field, something is being communicated. And you can feel that when somebody is grumpy, you feel that. You know that person doesn’t even need to look at you, doesn’t even need to talk to you. You can feel that there’s a disturbance in the “Force”, so to say, and you get, especially you feel this, if you’re … it takes a certain level of sensitivity to feel this. But I think we all have felt it with people who we are very close to, family members. When Mom is angry, everybody’s ducking in the house because they know there’s trouble on the horizon. There’s a big thundercloud somewhere else waiting in the kitchen, or wherever in the house and we better tread lightly in order to not set off the lightning. You have, and the interesting thing is, it’s not even bound to space or time when the phone rings and somebody calls you. Sometimes you know it’s my brother calling. It’s my sister calling. This is mom. This is Dad. Or my boss. Yeah, it’s this energy that you get, Oh darn, here we go, I have to take this call, this is important and probably there’s gonna be friction, when we are very sensitive to friction in our life and because it does something to our electromagnetic charge, and I will get there in a minute. Yeah, so the question is, how are we charged? How do we show up?
Dr. Pat
And then that, let me ask you, because there are three things you talk about. And I mentioned them earlier, the vibration, the resonance, and the radiance. And so how do they lead into tone? And let’s talk about how they work together to either contribute or not, it’s either going to be friction, or it’s going to be flow, maybe some things in between?
Dr. Vic
Absolutely. So the first thing that we need to be concerned with is how it feels here inside. And that is our frequency that is all vibration. And we have a say in this, but this is what creates what I call “the field around us”, right? And so how do I show up? It’s this hum, there’s a certain static that is going on here, like a radio station if you want. And but we are like a two way radio, we receive stuff and we send stuff. So what’s the hum that we are sending? If I’m fearful, people smell that, it’s really weird, and then I get picked on. And we all have probably, at least I experienced that in school, I was fearful and then I got picked on. It’s almost like I’m asking for it, right? Or maybe not asking for it. But I’m opening the possibility, the door of possibility for this to happen. Other people smell that, sense that, and then right barged right into that door.
Dr. Vic
If the possibility of you being addressed in a condescending tone is not part of the vocabulary of the energy that you’re emitting, it’s not good, – it’s not likely to happen to you. It’s a thing that how we are charged is what creates the reality that we are perceiving. So that’s the vibration. That’s the frequency. Now, the resonance also goes two ways: It’s what we resonate with. And that very much depends on what is our mindset, what is our experience, and what are the energies that we keep repeating to ourselves. If you want, it might as well be an imprint in our brains, that reinforces certain things that we resonate with. So… there are people who react very positively to people who are kind, why? Because it’s part of their makeup, their energetic makeup; and then there is a co resonance that works here, and those people will find each other. It’s that person that’s smiling at you at the restaurant and you smile back. That’s how it works. That’s the first. When two of the auras, two of the electrical electromagnetic fields start touching each other and checking each other out.
Dr. Pat
I think part of this too is we’re learning a lot now because there are two things going on in the world we live in. And one of them is, most of us that are on the outside are wearing masks. And I discovered something yesterday exactly aligned with what you’re saying is Lyndon and I went for a nice long walk in the neighborhood. Of course, I got lost, believe it or not, in my own neighborhood, Dr. Vic, yes. But we got lost in a kind of cool way. And we ended up down a very, very steep hill and Bothell. And so as we are coming up the hill, there are other people, and they’re coming with dogs, and they’re coming with kids. And I noticed something really interesting. See, I don’t know what’s going on in the other parts of the world where there is this antagonistic view on masks, no masks, I mean, clearly people are getting into that. But what I saw was something so gentle and so loving, as people and families were coming our way, our sidewalks were very narrow, while we went up a driveway. And these people with their young children were putting on their masks and walking by and everybody was saying hi to each other. That is energy. Absolutely, there’s an energy.
Dr. Vic
And that energy triggers something in you. There’s a resonance. And if You know that frequency, and if you have in some shape or form the capacity to be in your heart, you will reciprocate from there. Absolutely. Then it radiates back.
Dr. Vic
And energy, I’ve said that before in one of our previous shows, energy is highly contagious. And it is our responsibility, whether this energy that we are receiving, whether we let this in, and whether we allow this energy to “infect” us or not, because it can also go the other way, right? If somebody is very angry, or a very abrasive person has the power to mess up our day. And that is our decision. Do I want to set an energetic boundary here? And not let that energy in? Or actually, am I opening the door? Because I don’t know that I have a door.
Dr. Pat
Right? I want to take a short break. Dr. Vick, when we come back, I want to talk about this idea that you started, tone being on, tone being off, right? What does that mean? And what does it mean to be able to set the tone? What do we need to do to set that tone? Joining us today, for those of you out there, of course, we are talking about the energy paradigm. If you want to find more out about that, go to the energy paradigm.com. When we come back, is this something we can actually turn on and off? And if it is, then what makes it so difficult for us to do that? Let’s take a short break, everybody. We’ll be right back.
Dr. Pat
Welcome back, everybody, you’re listening to the energy paradigm. I’m Dr. Pat, I get to do this fabulous, fabulous show with Dr. Vic. Dr. Vic, let’s make sure everybody has information about you. Tell them how they can find information about you, how they can work with you, all of the above.
Dr. Vic
Happy to do so. I’m Dr. Vic, Dr. Victor Porak de Varna. The website is the energyparadigm.com You’ll find us also under the energy paradigm on Facebook and on Instagram. That’s how you can reach us. And I’m looking forward to talking to you.
Dr. Pat
Awesome. Dr. Vick, look, this is a body of work that you’ve been cultivating. You’ve worked in organizations, you’ve worked with individuals, and it’s so relevant to how we live our lives. This idea is between friction and flow. And we now know from the flow, we know that that is what brings us joy, that there’s comfort, there’s an ease, there’s life, it’s so much like the slide and glide of life happens. I want to talk about this idea of tone on, and tone off. And how we set the tone.
What do we need to do as people to become empowered around that, not feel victimized by it?
Dr. Vic
Let’s start with tone off, because I think we’re very familiar with this. Many people experienced friction with other people, be it family members, colleagues at work, be it people in traffic that you don’t even know. And especially right now, there’s so much friction out there because people are scared. And people pretend to know better than each other, and put each other off because they don’t want to get sick, because they fear for their lives, because they fear for the lives of their children, etc, etc. So I think we’re very familiar with friction, and what it feels like. And I think when the tone is off, let’s get one step back, because I didn’t talk about the radiance, the radiance is what we emit out. And that is through talking, how we speak, how we interact. It is body language. What am I telling you, through how I sit in front of you, how I stand in front of you, how I am listening to you. And then there’s a third component, – how am I acting, what am I doing, because that’s also an energetic language. There’s not only a material aspect to it, but there’s also an energetic aspect to it, and how am I doing it? How am I moving, right? So, those are the things that we then send our energy out back into the world, it’s very interesting we, we receive, we send back, or we receive, we send back out, we align, or we rub.
Dr. Vic
So when the tone is off, that means that my resonance and the resonance of somebody else I’m rubbing with are not aligned, they rub each other and that creates some type of dissonance. And dissonance affects us not only energetically, because it reduces our energetic field – and why does it do that, because we want to be protected, – so right when I feel safe, my energy field can be big. That also is reflected in my body language, I can stand straight, I have my head up, I can talk freely. When I’m fearful, I’m shrinking. In physical size, my head goes down in my mind, my eyes go down, my voice gets more silent, and my energy field shrinks. So what is happening when my energy field shrinks, is I feel this dissonance.
Dr. Vic
When this dissonance happens, it is an uneasy feeling that happens in my body. You can feel it in your body in different parts. I think I’m already saying one of the crucial things, energy is not something that you can think of, energy is something that you feel is not rational. So if you try to wrap your mind around it, that doesn’t work. You need to allow energy. It’s not something that you can grasp, not something that you can see, it’s not something that you can smell, it happens. You are open to it. You feel it. You sense it. You know it. It doesn’t have anything to do with a brain thinking type process.
Dr. Pat
Somebody gave me a book once, and I can’t remember the name of the book, but it was something like “think your way to joy”. Now I understand the power of thoughts, believe me, I do. I understand how they can help me either go down one rabbit hole or another, I get that. But this idea in our society that we have really been implementing for 50, I’d say about 50 years, maybe even longer, is this idea of not feeling, or at least if you are feeling, don’t share it. What you’re talking about is energy takes on a life of its own. It’s like, you cannot not feel energy. You see what I mean? Even though we think we don’t, we’re like, like thinking, “I don’t feel this”, but the very fact that we’re saying, “Oh, I don’t think I feel that,” we are feeling something.
Dr. Vic
If you feel something, if you are a sensitive person, because that’s where highly sensitive people come in, right? They feel. But as soon as either they feel not comfortable sharing the feeling that they have now, or when they share it, they get dismissed by others. “Oh, you’re too sensitive, you’re too emotional,” has happened to me on the job. People told me, “Oh, you’re being emotional.” I wasn’t fast enough back then I should have said, “Absolutely. I’m being emotional,” and we need that. You need to feel it, right. If you don’t allow this type of sensitivity in your life, you’re leaving a wake of collateral damage behind you because you’re trampling over one person after the other, unknowingly. A lot of this friction that I’m talking about is happening because people don’t understand the vocabulary. They don’t understand the language of energy. They even dismiss it. Or many people dismiss their feelings, and what happens to them is if you have done this for years and years and years, maybe decades, you are creating so much friction in your body that you become diseased.
Dr. Pat
Yeah, I think the part of this conversation too for people is that this is going on all the time. This is happening all the time. How many of us, maybe you experience a little bit of that by being sheltering at home. Maybe you’re spending more time around your family, family members, your children, your spouse, your partner, whatever, then you’ve ever done before. What Dr. Vick is talking about is, if we can understand at least this one aspect about tone. If we can understand how important that is, then we can literally begin to shift vibration, resonance and radiance. We could shift on, if I make this change here, maybe I have an end game that’s going to change. Right? I think that’s what we’re talking about today is being able to figure out, this is where I am, this is how I’m talking. Am I shaming? Am I blaming, you know, am I looking at something from a perspective, that’s all about me and less about the other person, all of these things are energetic. What I like to call their energetic fuel for what the outcome is going to be. But you say something that the energy you feel is real?
Dr. Vic
Absolutely. We are an antenna for energy. I’ve said before, it’s not a cognitive process, it’s not something that you think, “Oh, I’m thinking of energy right now.” Now you feel it? Well, how does feeling happen, it happens through your body, your body gives you a signal, and that signal needs to be acknowledged, because if you dismiss it, then you’re in friction again, inside yourself, you create friction, and that is where friction starts. We all create it ourselves. Because we are dismissing how we feel, “Oh, it feels really bad to go into this meeting room,” but you know what, I’m going to go in anyways, it’s like, “Hey, I don’t want to go to this battlefield,” but you know, but the bullets are flying, but hey, I’m gonna go in anyways, because I have to.
Dr. Vic
That might be a little bit of an extreme example, but you know what I’m saying right? The house is on fire, and I’m running inside instead of outside. It’s the energy that we are exposing ourselves to, and we don’t know how to handle it, but as soon as I feel something, it is real. It is true, and nobody can tell me “Hey, Victor, this is wrong, what you’re saying,” and yet we do it all the time. Right? “I don’t feel good” oh, no, don’t say that. “I don’t want to go to this meeting,” oh you have to go to this meeting. “I’m feeling like this is not the right idea.” “Yes, it is the right idea.” You have to do it. You see how we are, and that can be self talk, but it can also be a conversation.
Dr. Pat
Yeah, it is. I mean, we were watching a show, I saved the show for Berlin, Linda can’t come out here to Seattle, and Linda, of course, is the producer of my show, and is really the glue for a lot of folks like Dr. Vick. So I saved up all of these good doctor things, and so we were watching them, and there are two characters in the show that you don’t have to talk about how they’re attracted to each other. I mean, you could see it’s coming, right, and you could hear them talk to each other about “Nah, we’re just friends, you’re my res, you’re, I’m a resident, you’re the big chief or whatever you are, but we’re going bowling,” and, you know, so you watch this, and the reason we can relate to this, is because this is us.
You know, we have been in scenarios where you can cut the magnetism between people with a knife. Friction works the same way, but flow works the same way. You can feel it.
Dr. Pat
We’re gonna take a short break, because when we come back, how do we tap in to knowing the truth of like it is, how do we tap in and knowing that, you know, where do we step into this energy paradigm and step into the zone or the field of this and know that we have some say, and how energy is going to flow through us; may not have a lot to say about the energy that flows through another person, but the power that you have in looking and feeling and taking action about your field. That’s what this is going to be about when we come back. The energy you feel is real., and sometimes a little surreal. Let’s take a short break. We’ll be right back
Dr. Pat
Welcome back, everyone. Yep, the energy you feel is real. The energy you feel is real. You know what I love? I love two words, I love to use the words real and surreal. I love the word surreal for a lot of reasons, because it has an energy into it. When you say the word surreal, some people may not know exactly what that is, but they get it. When you talk about energy right now, you know how you feel it. Dr. Vick is joining us here today for a lot of reasons, but I want to make sure that you know how to find a lot about Dr. Vick, one of the things you can do is to go to the energy paradigm dot com The energy paradigm dot com, you’ll be able to find out about the energy paradigm, how you might use it for your organization’s. Dr. Victor Porak de Varna, of course, is the CEO of the Energy Paradigm, he has created this radical transformational approach to things. Energy is everything is energy. The question really is for us, how do we tap into that force? How do we unlock the humanity in us, but also the potentiality of this? Dr. Vic, thank you for bringing this topic. Yeah. It’s just something I want to talk about in talking about the idea of the energy principle and the fact that we may not be able to control the energy that comes out of us, right. We certainly are in charge of all of us.
Dr. Pat
Somewhere along the journey for me, somebody gave me a book. I’ve been given books at certain really critical points of my life in my evolution. I can’t remember exactly how far back I was given these two books. Way back before I even understood energy consciousness, and I don’t know that I still understand it. Before I heard it, right. The first book I got was a book called Power versus Force. Then I got another book. I don’t know what the message was that people were trying to tell me, to be honest with you. The other book I got was a book that I had to read a lot of times because I didn’t believe that. I didn’t believe Victor Frankel’s book, his story. I didn’t understand how he could be the man he was in the horrific scenario of World War Two. I was given that book, because there was something I had to learn. When I think about that, here’s the thing, Dr. Vic, I don’t think Viktor Frankl, I don’t think the people that we can rattle off their name, Steve Jobs, whoever they are. I don’t think they’re any different than any one of us. I do think they have really gotten on to something. I think they’ve gotten on to this energy thing. What do you think?
Dr. Vic
I think what defines a lot of people that we label as extraordinary, or very impactful, they have learned one thing, and that is how to manage their own energy, and how to build a field that not only reaches out, but it comes with a message, it comes with an intention, it comes with a will, with willpower. It comes with a determination that is unshakable. That is, in a nutshell, what the energy paradigm is trying to convey is how to get there. Because, over the past 40-50 years, so much has been written and so much has been researched. I think we understand pretty well what is happening with energy inside our bodies, how is it imprinting on the brain, what is happening to the cells, how do they communicate to each other, how do they lump to each other molecules, and then how we become a whole organism, and how they can relate to other organisms?
Dr. Vic
The big question is, “how do I get there? How do I charge my field?” A lot of things have been done already. What the Energy Paradigm does is almost putting the puzzle together and describing. So for example, we talked about this energy being contagious and what you let into your field. It starts with “what do I want? And how do I want to be and who do I want to be? And what are my values? And where am I drawing a line? Where am I setting my boundaries?” Because, if you don’t understand any of that as language and of this vocabulary, you’re just wide open and let anything in that is being thrown at you, the person that is yelling at you, you will take it in and it will mess up your own energy. The person who is not kind, the person who is angry. As I said, it’s very contagious.
Dr. Pat
But isn’t the opposite also contagious? I mean, this little walk thing yesterday with me and Linda, and I, some people believe I live in a pretty conservative area. I don’t know. I mean, I don’t know whether Bothell Washington is considered that or not, but we noticed this yesterday, and we have a funny feeling because they saw us right, and we moved up to the driveway where you couldn’t see it. There was a different energy. I wonder if we realize how powerful that energy is, I wonder if we only knew the outcome that you’re talking about? That it’s not such a far reach for us. I wonder if we really, really, really soak this up today, and took in your words, and understood how we could live a life full of flow.
Dr. Pat
I wonder how much we could transform the energy of the world? Because you see, positivity and kindness is contagious. Now I get teased a lot. Dr. Vic about this. Okay, so you come on, I call you Dr. Vic, you call me Dr. Pat. But I’m also known as Pollyanna Patti. I’m called Dr. Positivity, you know, and then people laugh, they laugh. I have my down days too, how do we capture this so that we can stand up to a fight like that, Anna, we could stand a fighting chance of coming out on the flow side, right? Because you’re right about one thing, there is some stuff we could be plugging into right now to cause us more “resentments then elephants got ticks?” Oh, a little quote from my mama.
Dr. Vic
Oh, okay. Wow. I think this is where a lot of people get uncomfortable in this type of conversation. Because we need to bring in a spiritual aspect, and I’m not talking –
Dr. Pat
Oh, let’s get uncomfortable. Come on!
Dr. Vic
I’m not gonna get uncomfortable, or something like that, but it is how you energize yourself? What is your source of choice, and I don’t care whether you’re Muslim, or Sikh or Christian. Whatever, or maybe a naturalistic type religion, whatever religion, or non religion you subscribe to. There is a force out there that we have to acknowledge, and that force that’s out there, if you like Star Wars, the movie, maybe you know, the sentence, “may the force be with you”? How can we be with this force? That’s the spiritual aspect of the energy paradigm. That is where we draw our energy from, and the deeper you go into a chosen practice, you can ask people who have been doing this for decades, the more you step into a power form, a light, a force that gives you what you need to build your field. There are so many different avenues. So I don’t care which one you choose, find the one that works for you.
This is how we recharge. We don’t recharge by other people yelling at us, right? That’s how we get the same, more of the same doesn’t work here.
Dr. Vic
You’ve mentioned that before a positive person can positively influence us because they give us energy. I will tell you something, when I was in Dharamsala in India, and I was waiting for my appointment with His Holiness, the Dalai Lama. He was sitting there and getting ready and he had his six, a team around him, and all his other monks. He looked at me and I was standing 30-40 feet away, and I got an energy wave from him that I have not felt like this before in my life. Wow. It was happiness, and I sent it right back to him. You can feel that with people that resonate with you, there’s like an energy shower going over you. Then it comes back up. It’s like a wave. Those are the people that you can sit with until the cows come home and talk. Why, because you are in co-resonance to each other. What you do is you lift each other up, and those conversations and those interactions and that collaboration also in an organization is so energetic and fruitful and positive, that you can work the entire day, and you’re not even tired when you get home, that is the flow part of it. That is when things when the tone is on, I’m calling it, the tone is positive, it jives and works, it goes hand in hand. The person when you talk to them, you have this feeling “gosh, I think I’ve known them for all of my life,” that is what I’m talking about.
Dr. Pat
Yeah, and you know, what you’re talking about is a common thread, in so much of our lives these days, and yet, what you’re doing is you’re helping people understand how to capture, you know, this force how to capture this energy, and I want to talk about this when we come back. Because there are so many ways we’ve seen manipulation of energy, and of course, I think you reference the force from the famous Star Wars, but there are several sides to energy. We should be aware of the upside and downside of this. When we come back, we’ll be talking about the energy principle of “do no harm,” but do no harm doesn’t mean we don’t do action. So when we come back, we’ll talk about that with Dr. Vic. Stay tuned, everybody. We’ll be right back.
Dr. Pat
Welcome back, everybody, welcome back to the Energy Paradigm, Dr. Vic and I get to really explore this and see what it is we could do in our lives, not just to save our lives, make it better, but literally transform things. We don’t think sometimes we have an impact or an effect on other people, but we do. Dr. Vic, thank you for joining me here today. We are drilling down into the elements of the Energy Paradigm that you’ve created. There’s something interesting you talk about, and that’s the first energetic principle “do no harm”. What that has come to mean with you, that the world really is from somebody. So when people think about the world, they think about it being upside down, other people that look at the world think about it, it’s been upside down for a number of years now. So let’s talk about this idea of being hit with massive amounts of energy, some of it friction related to others, but what does that “do no harm” mean?
Dr. Vic
So “do no harm” is one of the energetic principles that we at the Energy Paradigm work with, and do no harm, if we say harm. In colloquial language, it means you don’t harm anybody else. For me, and for the Energy Paradigm, we need to widen the scope of this because it also means to not harm yourself. We are masters at harming ourselves because we don’t know what we’re dealing with. The first step to understand how not to harm yourself is to understand “what am I made out of?” I’m not talking about the flesh and body part but I’m talking about the energetic setup. What is the energetic blueprint that I have been given that I’m working with? Here comes my experience, I have decades of interviewing and profiling people.
Dr. Vic
If you use classic assessment systems, you’re boxing people, you’re putting them into boxes, and you say, “Okay, you are like this, and you are like that, and that’s why you’re going to work like this in the future. And that’s why you cannot have this job.” I’m saying this is not right. Everybody, from my experience, is different. Everybody brings a set of energy, to their job and to their life and to their interactions and to their relationships, and to everything they do. We need to understand how these energies function and what they do. If we don’t do that, the first person that we create collateral damage with is ourselves. Because, if I go against my inner grain, every single day, I am rubbing so hard against my true self, the person I’m supposed to be, I am rubbing, I’m creating inner dissonance. Guess what happens if I create inner dissonance, it becomes a normal for me, it becomes my modus operandi, the way I am. If I’m torn in dissonance and friction inside, guess what I what I do, I replicate this in my relationships, I replicate this in my interaction, I replicate it in how I drive my car, I replicate it in how I talk to people, I replicate it in how I collaborate or refuse to collaborate. I replicate it when I honk at somebody in the street, because I think they have wronged me. That’s why the real kindness and compassion that the Do No Harm principle advocates for starts at home. We need to become compassionate with ourselves.
We need to become kind with ourselves, because every single day, we tell ourselves, “I’m not enough. I’m not good. I’m not worthy. I don’t deserve this.”
Dr. Vic
That is the real detrimental stuff that’s happening to us. That’s the self-talk that we have learned often through external influences. It’s our upbringing. It’s our society. It’s the teachers that we have encountered. I mean, if I tell you my life story, one person after the other showed up in my life to tell me who I cannot be and what I cannot do. Until I broke totally down. I said this is not right. That is where the Do No Harm principle starts. Because if I believe all those things that I’ve been told, and I internalize them, I start repeating them. If you look into the energy, the biological part of it, then I’m creating certain hormones in my body that are not good hormones. My body becomes addicted to those hormones, because that’s the only thing I can feel. If the only thing I can feel is negative stuff, it’s like the child that feels neglected and does bad things on purpose in order to feel something and in order to get some attention. If you let this child progress to being an adult, that’s exactly what happens when I’m creating one bad thing after the other in my life, because I crave to feel something. So why not shift this vicious circle into a positive circle and feel something good. That starts here. It starts inside, and it starts with a decision. The decision is, “I want to feel uplifted. I want to feel my potential. I want to feel the light that I am. I want to feel the essence that is there.” Once I can do that, then the Do No Harm automatically falls into place. Because, everybody who has a serious spiritual practice, who connects to the greater energy to the big fear that’s out there to the force. Your heart opens automatically.
Dr. Pat
So when we think about this, Doctor, that too, is as we’re looking at this and we’re thinking about something that we said before, we’re having a sense of this connection to another being right. We have a sense of the people whose energy we want to be part of and others that we don’t, and we get to carve out our own real pathway for ourselves. I think this is for a lot of people. This is the major breakthrough on how to master the energy we carry with thoughts in life and some people will say, the energy we carry with us and multiple lives, right.
We are at a place now where we have the power to rise up. I think we have to make sure that we get the message out there that people do have that power.
Dr. Vic
Absolutely, and you just mentioned something really, really important. There’s research that has been done in Europe, that family trauma is inherited, it goes from one generation to the next. So a lot of the stuff that you’re encountering in your life might actually not be your own. It has been given to you by your ancestors, and yes, there is a way to break through this. It doesn’t come easy. In the paradigm model, I call it a quest. With the quest, once you decide to venture on this quest, that “I’m gonna heal myself,” then comes if you want to heal yourself, then there’s a big mountain of stuff that you have to do. It’s not only sitting there and praying, but there are some actions that need to be followed. What I’m advocating for is, as I said before, everybody brings a different energetic blueprint, everybody brings a different set up, everybody works out from a different platform of their energy states that they are in, which means different strokes for different folks, and there are different avenues for you how to tackle this, and how you free yourself. In the end, the essence about the Energy Paradigm is how to become free. Because once you are free, you are without any limits, you are without any boundaries. You can unfold what you have come here to do. That is something that I personally believe we all have a gift, we all have a talent. We all have signed some sign off contract, when we came into the physical plane, and things that we have to do and to accomplish. The energy paradigm gives you the way to get there.
Dr. Pat
Yeah. Wow. Dr. Vic, look, I know there’s much more to come on this because this is your passion. This is where you are, connecting this, this force that we do have available to us, everybody’s got it. I think you know, when we talk about other ways of looking at ourselves, whether it’s through personality or some other form, we don’t have access to everything according to those models, you know, they put us in a box, but when we’re talking about energy, we can move forward, to move ourselves energetically from here to here. We just have to know how. Thank you for today. I’d like to know your personal message? What would you like to leave us with today? Where do we go from here?
Dr. Vic
You know, right now, we are living in this, what I call COVID craziness. What I’m seeing is so many people, especially on social media, who are scared for their life, and who engage in hate speech, and maybe don’t even realize what energies they’re putting out there. There’s a wonderful quote of Paul Selleck, “you cannot be offering the light and hold another in dark, in darkness. If you go out and use hate speech, to put people into a dark place, you are right there with them.” That’s how energy works. So have some kindness, have some compassion, “do no harm,” because if you put them out of black cave and back into the light, you will also go back into the light.
Dr. Pat
Awesome. Dr. Vic, thank you so much. Again, remind people how they can find out more about you.
Dr. Vic
The Energy Paradigm dot com. The Energy Paradigm on Facebook and the Energy Paradigm on Instagram. Please contact us.
Dr. Pat
I love it. Dr. Vic, thank you so much. I look forward to the next time. For those of you out there, remember this. When we are talking about energy, we’re talking about something that we have infinite control over for ourselves. Infinite, you know beyond anything that you can imagine, you know, when people discover the universe’s makings and aspects of it, there is something that each of us can tap into. The question really is, you know, what do we need to know? How do we need to know it? What do we do after we do know it? That’s what the Energy Paradigm is about. It’s not something you need to wait for or work for today. You can shift now. Thank you for tuning us in and turning us on. We’ll see you next time.
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